My Birthday...
Hi there...when i first started to write this blog, it was intended for daily postings...tapi nampaknya susah gak nak disiplin kan diri to write something everyday. My hubby pun takda masa langsung nak write anything...hmmm....time really flies.
Anyway, today is my birthday. Yg ke...dot dot dot. Last nite my in-laws family dah sambut my birthday...bestnya, the first time sambut birthday with a big family. Well, i'm the only child in the family. All this while, cuma mama, papa and myself yg akan sambut birthday...tapi this is the first time i sambut dgn husband, mak mertua, ayah mertua dan 6 adik beradik yg lain dan 6 anak-anak saudara...giler best...rasa terharu yg amat sgt.
And when the clock stroke 12am, my husband gave me my present...i was in tears when i opened it....happy sgt sebab dpt apa yg diidamkan....thanks darling and i love you so much too.
Bila bgn pagi ni, tengok2 ada santarina claus yg letak hadiah kat depan pintu bilik...rupanya mama dah letak kan hadiah...she gave me a gold necklace and a pair of earrings...mama memang suka bagi jewellery and guess what, I LIKE IT! Hehehe...
And I hugged her tightly and said thank you...i was in tears again. Ever since I got married since 4 months ago, I felt a little gap between me and my mum. I don't know why and when did that happened....getting married and living with my parents require me to be very good in dividing my time and try to make everyone happy.
I want to please everybody...and that requires a lot of effort...being working 5 days-week with more than 8 hours per day...and to do houseworks like any other wives....phew, I didn't know that it will be this challenging. And back to my mum, am not sure why she's been picking on me since I got married...she tells me to do a lot of things...and worse thing is to do like how she did them....I don't want to be like her, I want to be myself. I want to wash clothes the way I want it, I want to cook the way I want it, I want to do everything like my own way....but she keeps telling me "this is not how I did it, you should do this way...". I never felt so stupid like now...
but my husband usually tells me to be patient...and yeah, I have been patient and follow every single thing she told me to do....but it seems that she's never satisfied with what I have done. I don't like the gap that we have now...we used to have a good relationship....tapi ntahlah, i just have to be more patient, I guess. Her mood swing yg I paling kena sabar...and today nasib baik she has good mood.
Petang tadi lepas kemas2 bilik and lipat baju, my husband and I went to his parents house. Niat di hati nak berkaraoke kat bangsar...tried to coax my sis in law gak tapi dia tak nak gi. So we went to BSC with my younger sis in law, bro in law and one of my nieces. Best giler...melalak habis-habisan sampai 9pm. I had a great time...we went home and had dinner with his family.
Sampai rumah dah nak dekat 12am...we spent time chatting with each other....bestlah dah kahwin ni, takyah pakai handphone pun nak ckp panjang2....borak sampai nearly 2am...at no cost at all!
Happy Birthday to myself....:-P
Anyway, today is my birthday. Yg ke...dot dot dot. Last nite my in-laws family dah sambut my birthday...bestnya, the first time sambut birthday with a big family. Well, i'm the only child in the family. All this while, cuma mama, papa and myself yg akan sambut birthday...tapi this is the first time i sambut dgn husband, mak mertua, ayah mertua dan 6 adik beradik yg lain dan 6 anak-anak saudara...giler best...rasa terharu yg amat sgt.
And when the clock stroke 12am, my husband gave me my present...i was in tears when i opened it....happy sgt sebab dpt apa yg diidamkan....thanks darling and i love you so much too.
Bila bgn pagi ni, tengok2 ada santarina claus yg letak hadiah kat depan pintu bilik...rupanya mama dah letak kan hadiah...she gave me a gold necklace and a pair of earrings...mama memang suka bagi jewellery and guess what, I LIKE IT! Hehehe...
And I hugged her tightly and said thank you...i was in tears again. Ever since I got married since 4 months ago, I felt a little gap between me and my mum. I don't know why and when did that happened....getting married and living with my parents require me to be very good in dividing my time and try to make everyone happy.
I want to please everybody...and that requires a lot of effort...being working 5 days-week with more than 8 hours per day...and to do houseworks like any other wives....phew, I didn't know that it will be this challenging. And back to my mum, am not sure why she's been picking on me since I got married...she tells me to do a lot of things...and worse thing is to do like how she did them....I don't want to be like her, I want to be myself. I want to wash clothes the way I want it, I want to cook the way I want it, I want to do everything like my own way....but she keeps telling me "this is not how I did it, you should do this way...". I never felt so stupid like now...
but my husband usually tells me to be patient...and yeah, I have been patient and follow every single thing she told me to do....but it seems that she's never satisfied with what I have done. I don't like the gap that we have now...we used to have a good relationship....tapi ntahlah, i just have to be more patient, I guess. Her mood swing yg I paling kena sabar...and today nasib baik she has good mood.
Petang tadi lepas kemas2 bilik and lipat baju, my husband and I went to his parents house. Niat di hati nak berkaraoke kat bangsar...tried to coax my sis in law gak tapi dia tak nak gi. So we went to BSC with my younger sis in law, bro in law and one of my nieces. Best giler...melalak habis-habisan sampai 9pm. I had a great time...we went home and had dinner with his family.
Sampai rumah dah nak dekat 12am...we spent time chatting with each other....bestlah dah kahwin ni, takyah pakai handphone pun nak ckp panjang2....borak sampai nearly 2am...at no cost at all!
Happy Birthday to myself....:-P
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