A day after my birthday...
Hey there...another day begins...the usual chores on Sunday---basuh baju, sidai baju, masak and kemas bilik.
I cooked chicken curry today, after my mum said "hari ni u masak, mama nak rehat pulak"...oh no, not in her bad mood again! I buat "derk" jer...and terus masak...no hal, masak je lah curry.
But you know what, bila tengah tunggu curry tu menggelegak, my mum tetiba dtg to me and said, mama suka u masak curry, ur curry sedap, sebab tu mama saja letak ayam kat luar tu supaya u boleh masak curry....terdiam i kejap, sebab selama i kawin, dah 3 bulan memasak kat rumah ni, this is the first ever my mum puji masakan I. Thats amazing....alhamdulillah.
Petang dihabiskan dengan melawat rumah my aunty....it was nice. I got to meet my cousin who's studying in Germany...dia balik cuti so dtg melawat rumah i and to my another aunty's house.
Bila sampai kat rumah my aunty tu, the first remark she made to my husband is "eh, dah gain weight dah ni, perut dah nampak dah"....and man, how pissed I was...! Orang melayu ni dah takda benda lain ke nak komen....dahlah 3 bulan tak jumpa, the first remark has to be that way??? Tanyalah apa kabar ke, pujila muka berseri2 sejak kawin ke, nampak sihat mungkin sebab isteri pandai masak ke kan....ni tak, asik2 nak komen perut orang....bukan my hubby je yg kena....my cousin tu pun kena gak...dahlah dia balik dari germany setahun sekali....ni first thing nak komen pasal dia was "amboi perut tu dah nampak berlapis dah, selalu baring ke lepas makan? tengok aunty ni, takda pun perut berlapis"....what the h..l? nasib baik budak tu pun dah immune dah dgn komen2 tak bermakna mcm tu. taulah she's our aunty but that doesn't gave her the right to comment that way....
Sometimes i memang tak paham dgn org melayu ni....i still remembered there was one kenduri that I attended and my mum introduced me to another relative, whom I never met, and her first comment was, "amboi sihatnya, besar dp maknya!" what did she think I felt at that time? masalahnya yg bagi komen tu pun badan mcm tempayan kembang...kenapalah nak bagi komen mcm tu kat org yg first time u jumpa??? tension betul lah...
why can't people just accept other as what they are? if I'm overweight but I'm terribly happy, isn't happiness the most important thing? The thing is I'm happy the way I am, and my husband is happy with me, but why can't other people reserve their bad comment and accept me the way I am? I'm overweight but I'm not obese....and I still take care of my health. I have good job, have good life...so I just wish that other people could take care of their own business and start talking about other beneficial things rather than making other people feel bad with their stupid comments.....
Anyways, dah 26 tahun I live with this kind of comments...with this kind of people....and so far, no one has changed....too bad for them....
I have nothing to lose and this is who I am....and my hubby loves me very much and Allah loves me endlessly. Tu yg lagi penting dlm hidup ni....
I cooked chicken curry today, after my mum said "hari ni u masak, mama nak rehat pulak"...oh no, not in her bad mood again! I buat "derk" jer...and terus masak...no hal, masak je lah curry.
But you know what, bila tengah tunggu curry tu menggelegak, my mum tetiba dtg to me and said, mama suka u masak curry, ur curry sedap, sebab tu mama saja letak ayam kat luar tu supaya u boleh masak curry....terdiam i kejap, sebab selama i kawin, dah 3 bulan memasak kat rumah ni, this is the first ever my mum puji masakan I. Thats amazing....alhamdulillah.
Petang dihabiskan dengan melawat rumah my aunty....it was nice. I got to meet my cousin who's studying in Germany...dia balik cuti so dtg melawat rumah i and to my another aunty's house.
Bila sampai kat rumah my aunty tu, the first remark she made to my husband is "eh, dah gain weight dah ni, perut dah nampak dah"....and man, how pissed I was...! Orang melayu ni dah takda benda lain ke nak komen....dahlah 3 bulan tak jumpa, the first remark has to be that way??? Tanyalah apa kabar ke, pujila muka berseri2 sejak kawin ke, nampak sihat mungkin sebab isteri pandai masak ke kan....ni tak, asik2 nak komen perut orang....bukan my hubby je yg kena....my cousin tu pun kena gak...dahlah dia balik dari germany setahun sekali....ni first thing nak komen pasal dia was "amboi perut tu dah nampak berlapis dah, selalu baring ke lepas makan? tengok aunty ni, takda pun perut berlapis"....what the h..l? nasib baik budak tu pun dah immune dah dgn komen2 tak bermakna mcm tu. taulah she's our aunty but that doesn't gave her the right to comment that way....
Sometimes i memang tak paham dgn org melayu ni....i still remembered there was one kenduri that I attended and my mum introduced me to another relative, whom I never met, and her first comment was, "amboi sihatnya, besar dp maknya!" what did she think I felt at that time? masalahnya yg bagi komen tu pun badan mcm tempayan kembang...kenapalah nak bagi komen mcm tu kat org yg first time u jumpa??? tension betul lah...
why can't people just accept other as what they are? if I'm overweight but I'm terribly happy, isn't happiness the most important thing? The thing is I'm happy the way I am, and my husband is happy with me, but why can't other people reserve their bad comment and accept me the way I am? I'm overweight but I'm not obese....and I still take care of my health. I have good job, have good life...so I just wish that other people could take care of their own business and start talking about other beneficial things rather than making other people feel bad with their stupid comments.....
Anyways, dah 26 tahun I live with this kind of comments...with this kind of people....and so far, no one has changed....too bad for them....
I have nothing to lose and this is who I am....and my hubby loves me very much and Allah loves me endlessly. Tu yg lagi penting dlm hidup ni....
posted by hepicouple at 9:25 PM
1 Comments:
Wife, to me you are the most beautiful person in the world, don't worry about the unwise comments.
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